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Ep.66 Mindful self-discipline: how to achieve your goals in a world of distractions w/Giovanni Dienstmann

Imagine if you had the self-discipline necessary to create positive habits, break bad ones, follow a morning routine, and consistently stay on track with your goals day after day. Imagine if obstacles such as low motivation, fear, self-doubt, distractions, overwhelm, excuses and procrastination would no longer hold you back.
Who would you become? What would your life be like? How would you feel?

Self-discipline is the topic of this episode, but mindful self-discipline, aka less of the  less ‘drill-sergeant” military approach for mental toughness, and more gentle self-awareness and encouragement without the shaming & guilt-tripping. 

Guest expert is Giovanni Dienstmann,  a former lawyer come self-discipline coach who has helped hedge fund managers, CEOs, entrepreneurs, ambitious professionals, artists and pro-athletes to overcome distractions, procrastination, self-doubt, fear, and other forms of self-sabotage. He is also a meditation teacher, the author of “Mindful Self-Discipline” and curator of LiveAndDare.com, one of the top five most visited meditation blogs on the web. 

Topics & Time Stamps 

00:00 What is self-discipline and what is it NOT?

02:37 Self-discipline vs willpower

05:19 Giovanni's starting over story

07:59 Beat fears with the "not-now technique"

11:44 3 life lessons in 'starting over'

17:15 Focus on the WHY, not the HOW

21:47 Daily practices for mindful self-discipline

26:58 Reactivity v response: impulse control

27:59 Overcoming the obstacles to self-discipline

32:35 Offline morning routine

37:30 Breaking the self-defeating cycle

41:06 A contingency plan

45:49 What is the best advice you've ever received?

47:34 What is the worst advice you've ever received?

51:12 Closing message on self-discipline
 

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Music by: Flood (Instrumental) by RYYZN https://soundcloud.com/ryyzn
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